WITH AGE..

There's this joke about women and marriage that says
At 20 a woman wants a tall, dark, rich, handsome and funky man.
At 30 a woman wants a tall, rich , handsome and God fearing man
At 35 a woman wants a rich, handsome and God fearing man
At 40 a woman wants a rich and God fearing man
At 45 a woman wants a God fearing man
At 50 a woman wants a man.

The joke is meant to depict desperation in women  and lowering their standards because of societal pressure. It used to be so funny and I used to agree with it.

It only just occurred to me that it isn't desperation that makes women strike off a lot of stuff from their 'spec' list but wisdom and maturity that most times comes with age.

No right thinking 30 something years old would want an "I feel alright", "trouser sagging", "club hopping" guy these days. That individual has no vision. And trust me if you are looking for such a man, you are also vision less and your case na "double wahala for dead body".
THE BLIND LEADING THE BLIND. Where will you both end up? Groping in darkness till you land in a gutter.

No matter how Christian a person is, how many hours the person speaks in tongues if  you have no vision, you are going nowhere fast. It took me a while to get this. May God collapse years for me in Jesus name o.

If I catch my daughters at 22 with "I feel alright" boy ehn, the rod of correction will be her companion.

Women : have a vision and most importantly marry a man with a vision.

Luke 6:39