Friday 11 November 2016

WHAT DO YOU KNOW?


God said let us create man in our image and likeness and gave him dominion over every thing yet an animal that Adam had dominion over was able to fool him just because he didn't know who he was.

The same devil came to tempt Jesus and because Jesus knew who He was, flicked him off like a fly.imagine that Jesus gave in... Thank God o.

The difference is in the KNOWING. you gan be principality, ask king David, he knew whose he was.
When the devil whispers that you can't have children,Tell him right back that it is written that none shall be barren in the land.

When he says you will die poor because no one in your whole village has more than 2bedroom bungalow, remind him that the earth is the Lords and the fullness thereof and this same Lord is your Shepherd and has promised you will not want.

When he tells you that you have nothing to show for your years of serving God, remind him that the bible says he that endures till the end shall be saved.

God has given us the answer to every obstacle standing in your way.
Receive Boldness in the face of adversity in Jesus name!!!

Proverbs 24:10



2017 IN VIEW..



I remember when I used to have a long list of goals at the beginning of every year, make New Years resolutions I won't remember by the 5th of January.
Recently I saw a diary of mine that I had written my goal for 2011,2012 and 2013. The list was exactly the same, which meant I had not accomplished any. In 3 YEARS!!! 
What a shame. I realized the problem was that I didn't make any move towards achieving my goals. 

2016 I had quite a few and I achieved 2 out of ...... I'm celebrating the victory of the two because achieving them opened my eyes to why I've never accomplished any before now. I expected them to just happen because I desired them.

 For 2017 I have only 3 goals. 
I intend to pray about them from tonight, I intend to research on how to achieve them and I intend to be extremely deliberate about the process to my achievements.

Begin to pray and fast about 2017. There's no point wearing your boots on the battle field, prepare before you enter the battlefield. The path to all round success is direction from the Lord. 

Jeremiah 42:3

Sunday 6 November 2016

POT OF OIL

I've never really spoken about my experiences in the Holy Land. Words can't caption it at all.
We took a picture in front of a cafe that has existed for decades. It is a family owned business, one person sowed the seed and left an inheritance for generations. Gil just mentioned it casually but it hasn't left me since.
I've done a few businesses and failed woefully at them so I can imagine the tears and sweat involved in keeping this business alive let alone for so long. 

A few years ago I heard in a service that you should pray about your source of income because He teaches us to create wealth, in the vision of the day or dream of the night He will drop the idea. He did it with Jacob when Laban was trying to cheat him.

I am learning not to do anything without asking THE STORY CHANGER. 

That widow in the bible had a little oil in her house that she thought had no value,Elisha told her to go and borrow jars, (get capacity, train yourself, broaden your horizon) she had borrowed what she could and after pouring into all the jars she could find ,there was no more (reached her limit). 
He said to her, "Go, sell the oil and pay your debt and you and YOUR SONS  can live on the rest (inheritance). From debt to leaving an inheritance!!! 


No matter how many versions of tongues you can switch on and off ,it doesn't translate to wealth if you do not cry out. (After all her husband was a son of a prophet) 
Ask God for your pot of oil (source of income) that won't dry up and live an inheritance for your children and they will thank you for it. 

As Christians we know that our economy isn't of this world and our lives should reflect it. If Isaac sowed in famine and reaped 100 fold In the same year, has that God who favored Isaac gone on leave?

2 kings 4 :1-7
Deuteronomy 8:18 


Wednesday 19 October 2016

LOYALTY!



Was studying the book of Daniel yesterday and during my quiet time, the Holy Spirit started to convict me.
He made me realize how disloyal I am to God. At first I resisted it but He just won't let me. Somehow I begged for mercy and shook it off.

Do you know those boys were blindly loyal to God? They didn't shift their focus from God and naturally He showed up for them. The funny thing about this is they were not believing God for the mundane things that we spend our energy trying to get, it was all for this God. We naturally gravitate towards the people who are loyal/love us. God loves us all equally but don't forget that the bible also says eyes have not seen what God has prepared for those who love Him.
Every time we look to help ourselves out of any situation or look to man, we have shifted our focus from God and that questions our loyalty to Him. 


Still wonder why He didn't show up in that situation? You were not looking to Him babay!  When you reach heaven in your ripe old age ask uncle Peter why he began to sink on the same water he was walking on.


PASTOR GOODHEART...


When I first heard that Pastor Goodheart was leaving HOTR I was uncomfortable even though it isn't my church. Then I read that he was simply answering the call to destiny and he left without any drama. I became super proud of him.
It would have been a mess if his leaving was controversial because he's One of the fathers of the Pentecostal church in abuja.(the man na principality true)
I've been under his ministration once and I was thoroughly blessed. Many of us haven't recovered from the revival that was wrought that day (we don't want to anyway).
I'm not shocked at the name of his church, that's what he stands for.

I wish everyone who is answering their personal call to destiny makes it as honorable as this, it makes me proud to be a Christian. Well done sir.
The God that called you will hold your hand as you walk with Him till Jesus Taries.

We are not in competition with each other, the real competition is out there.

Psalm 133

Friday 7 October 2016

HEARTFELT GRATITUDE

I didnt want the protocol department people to spend money celebrating me, there's just been so much in the last few months. I did all the James bond to escape being surprised.
Then they caught me, I was too celebrated.
I was kept in a hotel to chill, and pastor Ib helped them catch me.
My sister and brother were all in on it.

I started the tears from 1159 on the 4th because I read things people had to say about me.
I'm not a nice person to my protocol people because I need the work done.
I was shocked at the things I heard about me. It could not have been me they were talking about, it has to be the person they want me to be.

I don't remember giving anyone my last money , i don't remember crying with anyone, i don't remember fighting anyone over my people, i don't remember being a mother hen, I don't remember giving wise advice, I don't remember teaching anyone. All I remember is how I howl at them when they are not getting work done.

Indeed God uses the foolish things to confound the wise. I don't get it but I'm grateful for it.
When women Pray is churning out women that will change the world, one family at a time.

God bless you all. I'm grateful.

In other news na so I enter elevator for hotel Nepa take light. I bind every thing that wants to turn my joy into mourning in Jesus name.


Psalm 90:12

Sunday 2 October 2016

DUE PROCESS

I'm so tired of apologizing to everyone about why I've not written in a while. Truth is I've been extremely busy. I'm doing many things and also like I explained to Reverend Ethel, I don't want to write from my flesh, cos then nothing will make sense.

I honestly think I've found my pot of oil, (Like the widow of zarephat ). One day I'd write the breakdown of this revelation.
Anyway I read a  short story about the man who helped a struggling butterfly out of its cocoon and the butterfly had to live the rest of its life with a swollen body and shriveled wings. It never flew, it didn't fulfil destiny because of the shortcut.

Many of us, (yours truly included) don't like the process of squeezing that ultimately leads to our balanced growth. It is not easy at all but it is needed.
I'm going through a process of accepting what God has obviously called me for. I have been told, I have dreamt it, I have seen small small signs but meeeeeehn. 

I wasn't actively fighting against it, but I wasn't actively working towards it either. 
I'm learning a few stuff along the way, I'm gaining strength, hopefully gaining maturity, gaining wholeness .
Many times I want to give up, especially when it becomes unbearable (which is the shortcut) I remember that I need balanced growth.  Many times I want to dislike the people God is using to chisel me, but I remember that I need balanced growth, I don't necessarily like the process but I need balanced growth.

I jus kient deal with a swollen body with shriveled wings so hard as the process will be, I go try take am.
Hopefully I'm back to writing.
Happy October! 

Hebrews 12:11

Thursday 28 July 2016

GIVE ME YOU...

I've been struggling with a few stuff recently and It is helping me grow. My growth may not be at a pace expected, but I am savouring it.
I was quite angry with someone and everything the person did just plain irritated me. One day I kept hearing "love does not give up",  I honestly didn't want to hear it because my mind was made up on what I wanted to do.

Then God asked me if I wanted Him to give up on me when I fail Him. I cried, telling God if He's not seeing what this person is doing to me and He has refused to answer me again.

My husband has his own love language which is slightly different from mine and it irks me badly. In one of  my moments of wondering how I didn't notice all this before marriage, the Holy Spirit whispers to me "love on me Tega and I will teach him to love you the way you want".

Now, how on earth will the Holy Spirit be telling me to love on Him, He knows I love Him. So I began to search my ways.

I've not had a full day of just being in His presence in two years like I used to.
I've not even had up to one hour of being in His presence in recent times just praising Him, I'm constantly interceding, or negotiatiating or weeping ,asking for something.
Sometimes I rush out without giving Him the first fruits of my day.

I've not paid much attention to my Father, yet He watches over me constantly.

All I can do is ask for mercy...

Friday 10 June 2016

JESUS ARE YOU THERE?





Have you ever experienced pain so deep you can physically feel it? Like your heart is about to be ripped out from your chest, are things refusing to add up, is it taking too long for the promise to manifest..... I can relate sweetheart, I can and so can Don Moen.


Lord, You seem so far away
A million miles or more, it feels today
And though I haven't lost my faith
I must confess right now
That it's hard for me to pray

But I don't know what to say
And I don't know where to start
But as You give the grace
With all that's in my heart

I will sing, yes, I will praise, even in my darkest hour
Through the sorrow and the pain
I will sing, I will praise, lift my hands to honor You
Because Your word is true, I will sing

Lord it's hard for me to see all the thoughts
And plans You have for me, yes it is
But I will put my trust in You
Lord we made You die to set me free
Oh thank God You did




 

Sunday 1 May 2016

KIKI EFEBO




One day I was in fellowship and I noticed three lovely ladies staring at me. I felt awkward because I somehow knew they were talking about the testimony I had given during anniversary about my changed life. I moved past them telling myself that's their business. A few days later one of them walks up to me and told me things that made me cry and after that she became my personal baby. She became my first mentee ever.
When you meet her you first think she will be a snub and full of herself because of her good looks but her warmth will endear you to her instantly.
Fashionista,  make up lover, lover of children, responsible (had to drag her into protocol ), extremely respectful, talented, focused, very willing to learn and most importantly a beautiful girl with anointing.

Kilete Efebo,  theres no way i wont celebrate you on this platform, you encouraged me when I thought I was rambling,  thank you for commenting first on my first ever post, thank you for making me more responsible by constantly looking out for you.
Happy birthday darling.



Monday 18 April 2016

WHAT DRIVES YOUR CHRISTIANITY?

A few years ago, I introduced a friend to another friend to do some business  and it went downhill.
It it got nasty very quickly and I was caught in the middle of the drama. In fact I am was going to be arrested by my friend o.
The interesting thing is both of them are tongue talking Christians yet one of them said she will never do business with a Christian again.

A few weeks ago a pastor was interviewed at a radio station and when the phone lines were open, it was like hell was let loose. it sounded like everyone had been waiting for him, they abused the living lights out of him.
And it goes on and on and on and on. ..
The painful part is it don't blame them much because many of us are not eternity conscious. We don't think about how God feels about what we are doing after we have received salvation  (me inclusive). In the days of ignorance, God will indeed overlook  (the key word being "IGNORANCE")

Do you know what drives terrorists? A reward about virgins gifted to them.  What should drive us Christians is the fact that we don't want to hear the word "DEPART" from our heavenly Father on that day.

Wednesday 13 April 2016

WITH AGE..

There's this joke about women and marriage that says
At 20 a woman wants a tall, dark, rich, handsome and funky man.
At 30 a woman wants a tall, rich , handsome and God fearing man
At 35 a woman wants a rich, handsome and God fearing man
At 40 a woman wants a rich and God fearing man
At 45 a woman wants a God fearing man
At 50 a woman wants a man.

The joke is meant to depict desperation in women  and lowering their standards because of societal pressure. It used to be so funny and I used to agree with it.

It only just occurred to me that it isn't desperation that makes women strike off a lot of stuff from their 'spec' list but wisdom and maturity that most times comes with age.

No right thinking 30 something years old would want an "I feel alright", "trouser sagging", "club hopping" guy these days. That individual has no vision. And trust me if you are looking for such a man, you are also vision less and your case na "double wahala for dead body".
THE BLIND LEADING THE BLIND. Where will you both end up? Groping in darkness till you land in a gutter.

No matter how Christian a person is, how many hours the person speaks in tongues if  you have no vision, you are going nowhere fast. It took me a while to get this. May God collapse years for me in Jesus name o.

If I catch my daughters at 22 with "I feel alright" boy ehn, the rod of correction will be her companion.

Women : have a vision and most importantly marry a man with a vision.

Luke 6:39

Wednesday 30 March 2016

TEGA SAYS NAY!


You see the gender equality madness that's making the news is just an end time sign. It may sound appealing to a lot of women but I promise you it is altering Gods word and plan. 
The God that made man head of the house and woman help meet isn't foolish. I will not alter Gods word in the name of civilization. 
There is a saying in Yoruba that the person who someone is helping should carry the bulk of the load while the helper carries the lighter part.

I don't blame men much though, It started from Adam. If he had been with his wife when the serpent came to tempt her, he would have been able to guide her and protect her from the guile of the serpent but I'm sure he was on one social media platform or taking selfies and left the woman open to temptation. And she went ahead and made a decision that altered humanity.

Women are also a huge problem in bringing men up, you spoil your son rotten in the name of love forgetting that he will grow up and (reluctantly) leave the house and become a burden to the society and his wife. A boy is taught to play video games while a daughter is taught to be a home keeper. Be conscious that you are raising either a source of joy or source of sorrow.

I Oghenetega as a woman was called to be 'helpmeet'. If God desired for me to be a man, He will have created me so from beginning.(after all I have five brothers)
He is wiser than the wisest.

I don't care what the Senate says but I am a senator of the Heavenly House of Reps and I say NAY to gender equality.

With this point of mine, I hope I've been able to convince you and not confuse you that I am not for half baked gender equality.
Man take your place!

Genesis 2:20b, Ephesians 5:23&24

Wednesday 16 March 2016

WHERE DOES YOUR LOYALTY LIE?

When I was younger my mum had this friend who I was so sure she loved to bits. I fell in love with them too because she had a daughter who was my age mate and our birthdays are just a day apart, I think we were even born in the same hospital. We also had siblings that their ages were close, we attended the same church etc.
Since I am a last child and my older ones were much older, i became a regular in their house so I could have a play mate.

Somehow monkey born one five die, our mothers fell out of love and of course it became awkward to continue to be friendly with them. I felt it wasn't fair, even as young as I was. I felt if they could not manage their friendship, the children should not be made to severe their friendship either. 
I can't really remember if my mum outright told us to stay clear but I remember sneaking to their house a few times, yet when I'm with my mum and see them I won't say hello.
I remember one day my brother caught me and told me my mum won't be happy if she found out I was doing that and so regardless of the fun I would miss I stopped out of loyalty and love for my mum.

I saw a post on Facebook and the girl was half naked and typing all sorts of obscenities and then she wrote Something about Jesus as well. 
Out of loyalty for God, ( let's say you dunno if you love Him self) how He sent His son to die on the cross for your sake, can you try not to play with the devil behind Gods back? E no easy but He is the help of the helpless. Ignore this false grace doctrine flying all over the place. 
God cannot behold iniquity.

The devil and your Father (God) are not friends DO NOT play with him.

John 8:44

Saturday 5 March 2016

MAN OF GOD

Was stuck waiting somewhere so I managed to pick up a book I've been struggling to read because of my hectic schedule in the last few weeks. Now the writer talks about Moses being a man of God and goes ahead to describe who a  man of God is.

He says a man of God is a man who comes from God,is chosen and sent by God. One who walks with God, lives in His fellowship and carries the mark of His presence. A man who lives for God and His will, whose whole being is ruled by the glory of God, who involuntarily and unceasingly leads men to think of God. A man in whose heart and life God has taken the right place as the All in All and who has only one desire, that God should have that place of preeminence throughout the world.
God has planned them to be the link between Himself and the world because through them we should see the life of God, His spirit and His power at work.

In your brief anger feats, your subtle pride, your silent greed , are men led to think of God?

So the next time someone refers to you or you think you are a man or woman of God, read through this and rate yasef. Elijah knew he carried these qualities and God validated him when fire came down from heaven when he declared if he be a 'man of God'.

Brother Gbenga abeg my name is simply Tega.
God bless my sister Yvonne for this amazing book.

Deuteronomy 33:1

Sunday 28 February 2016

TOBI NO LONGER COHEN..


So my niece got married earlier this month in Israel. You know those amazing things you hear and wish it would happen to you but then you push them away because the dream tall pass you? That was this trip for me. Me and my siblings went for the wedding. It was AMAZING! The New Testament came alive! I walked the path Jesus walked, where He was born and crucified? Me kwa? I went to the wailing wall to pray with my brothers? It was indeed a life time experience. God bless Mr and Mrs Cohen immensely, may God give you unforgettable blessings to your tenth generation.

This Tobi that used to follow my friends and I around in Kano, is now married! Tega don old. The next generation don start to marry.

God bless your union Tobi and Vadim, I wish you many years together filled with love and fruitfulness.

HAPPY NEW YEAR IN FEBRUARY..

Four days after my last post, I fell very ill. Had a case of ketoacidosis ( use dictionary abeg). And somehow I haven't really got my self back, I still get dizzy spells once in a while. You know how you just up and move and you don't understand you need to give praise to the one who gives you the opportunity and privilege to be healthy. 

I remember reading Open Heavens a few years ago where we were asked to thank God for at least an hour, by the time I had covered everything and everyone I checked the time it was a bleeping 10 mins!!!
I had prayed like I was gonna spill my guts. And it was just 10 mins???

Now if you ask me to do 1hour of thanksgiving, I'd probably do 2 hours without knowing. Thanking Him for health alone will probably take the 30 mins. 
When I realize I was a coke bottle away from diabetic coma, I understand the goodness and mercies God freely gives.

Was having a conversation with my older siblings and we were talking about thanksgiving and my sister told me to listen to Solomon Lange's 'Yesu Masoyina'. And I was totally lost in love. 

Indeed I'm thankful for life!!! 

1 Thessalonians 5:18


BORROW NOW..




I went to shoprite on valentine Sunday at around 11am to buy wrapping paper and thought I could dash in and out since it was one item, I was grateful for the '10 items or less' cahsier till but as I reach there I see people with trailer load of tins, I tried to speak grammar telling them to follow the rules so I can run, but as naija people be na, I totally was ignored and the only person wey even answer me tell me say no be UK we dey. 
So I was silently seething and then this little boy walks up to a woman on the queue and says in the most cheeky manner 'favor was punished in Sunday school today because she didn't remember her memory verse' and walks away with a smirk on his face. The mother was so embarrassed because everyone heard.

This boy needs to be flogged by his mother for being a 'reporter'. These are the people who grow up to be 'eye service' people, trying to gain silly favors from people of authority, making themselves appear like they are the good ones. 
What is the motive behind your reporting? Will it hurt the person? someone told you about someone else, then you go and tell the person??? If what you will say will hurt the person, and not bring solution, brethren I humbly advise you pray for the person.
If you report a matter, you automatically make people ( even the person you reported to) wary of you and life is like water, you never know when you will flow into each other in future.

Another name for the book of proverbs should be 'BORROW BRAIN'. Thank you Michelle Ante for making me read the book of 'borrow brain' again. 

Proverbs 17:9